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Annie Jacob (DDH'24) (Bruce Bottomley photos)

As a little girl in Kerala, India, Annie Jacob (DDH鈥�24) received a toy dentistry kit as a gift. Although she didn鈥檛 enjoy going to the dentist ("scary, bright lights, big chair"), she did have fun using the kit to check her parents鈥� teeth. It planted the seed for her to consider dentistry as a profession. When she was ready to explore post-secondary options, however, she faced a dilemma: after getting accepted into a dentistry program in India, cousins in Saskatchewan encouraged her to come to Canada.
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"I had always wanted to study abroad, and I was also interested in pharmacy," says Jacob. In 2016, she moved to Barrie, ON, to begin the two-year pharmacy technician program at Georgian College. "I was only 17, but I was excited because I love an adventure," she says. Her plan? To study in Canada, then return to India to work, and to pursue dentistry or dental hygiene there in the future.
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Like many best-laid plans, Jacob鈥檚 had unexpected twists and turns鈥攁nd one heart-wrenching personal decision鈥攂ut a happy outcome.
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A time of options
While working at a Lawtons pharmacy in Kentville, N.S., from 2018 to 2020, Jacob began taking pharmacy prerequisite courses at Acadia University. After becoming a permanent resident in 2020, she met with a Dal student advisor for pharmacy, and one for dental hygiene. In January 2021, she returned to India to marry Midhun, whom she had met in Barrie but was also from India.
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The next month, Jacob discovered she was pregnant. "I wasn鈥檛 brave enough to continue studying while I was pregnant," says. "I decided to apply to the dental hygiene program, and if I got in, I鈥檇 go for it. Deep in my heart, I knew I wanted to work in dentistry."
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In May 2021, the couple moved to Halifax, where Midhun opened a South Asian grocery store and Jacob resumed prerequisite courses at Dal. Baby Jeremy was born in October. In December, Jacob took Jeremy to India to meet his extended family. At the end of April, she applied to the DDH program, and was accepted while she was in India. Two days later, she got an email saying she had been moved to the waiting list. A week after that, another email confirmed she had a secure spot.
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"It was an emotional roller coaster!"says Jacob. "Was I happy or sad? I had a six-month-old baby. It was so stressful." With Midhun鈥檚 support, Jacob started the program at the end of August, but they didn鈥檛 have childcare. Her parents moved in with the young family. After two weeks, her dad returned to India, with her mother staying for a few months. Then Midhun鈥檚 mother took over. Finally, in May 2023, Jeremy had a daycare spot.

The toughest decision
"It was a hard first semester, and hard after our parents left," says Jacob. "Jeremy was getting sick, I was getting sick, and I couldn鈥檛 see patients with a runny nose. But I was determined to do the program." Jacob鈥檚 mother returned to help with Jeremy three days a week, with two days at daycare to keep his spot. Then, Jacob鈥檚 maternal grandmother got sick.
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Jacob had two semesters left, and a tough decision to make. "I wanted my mum to be with her mother, so we decided that she would go and take Jeremy with her." Jacob flew to India with her mother and son, dropped them off, then flew back to Halifax. She missed only three days of classes. "All of my professors were so supportive," she says. "I cried the whole flight home and for a month after. When we Facetimed Jeremy, he wouldn鈥檛 talk to me for a few days. The mom guilt was terrible."
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Luckily, Jeremy adjusted quickly and told everyone that his mommy was studying and that he would be going home when she had finished school. Now when they Facetimed, he asked to see her classroom and her friends. He was away from November 2023 to April 2024.
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"When he came home, it felt like nothing had changed," says Jacob. 鈥淲hen I was sad and missing him, I thought, this time with him is a gift for my family鈥攖hat鈥檚 how I consoled myself. He met my cousins, who had children his age, and learned our language and our culture. He has good memories of his time there."
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Jacob has good memories of the program, too, especially her community-outreach work in long-term-care homes. "I could really feel the need there, for the residents to have someone to hear them beyond oral health care," she says. "They would want to tell their stories, and I enjoyed listening."
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In July, Jacob will start working as a dental hygienist at a family practice in Bedford. First, there was a very special convocation ceremony, with Jeremy crossing the stage with her. "It鈥檚 not just me graduating鈥攊t鈥檚 also my husband, our mums, and Jeremy," she says. "I鈥檝e been dreaming about this moment."